This isn’t just a birthday — it’s a movement.
and you are invited
The B Experience is a luxurious, unforgettable celebration of Bonika’s journey, power, and essence. Merging style and soul, the weekend is a tribute to everything she was Born to B — bold, brilliant, beautiful, balanced, and blessed — all while honoring the excellence she radiates.
From high-energy moments that scream main character energy, to intimate experiences rooted in connection, this celebration feels like Beyoncé’s Renaissance Tour with a sprinkle of Oprah’s Favorite Things — curated, magnetic, and unmistakably Bonika.
Welcome to The B Experience — a weekend that’s iconic by design and legendary by presence.
Golf meets party. Stylish. Unexpected. Under the stars.
Friday Evening, September 19, 2025
8:00pm - 11:00pm
A chic, high-energy night golf experience where party meets play. Guests will enjoy glowing LED
golf balls, cocktails, and music under the stars.
Dress Code: Bold & Bright – pops of color, metallics, or neon accents
flavors of fifty
Choose your own daytime adventure.
Open to the first 40 women to sign up
A wine-infused cooking experience filled with laughter, flavor, and celebration — perfectly paired with Château Élan’s finest pours and a dash of culinary surprise.
Dress Code: Burberry-Inspired Chic
Think classic checks, elevated neutrals, and polished comfort.
Guests should channel effortless elegance with a playful twist —
perfect for sipping wine and getting hands-on in the kitchen.
Suggestions:
- Burberry plaid prints (scarves, tops, or accents)
- Neutral-toned button-downs or fitted sweaters
- Sleek jeans, trousers, or midi skirts
- Loafers, ballet flats, or stylish sneakers
11:00am - 12:30pm
Open to the first 25 guests to sign up
A sophisticated yet soulful gathering that blends Bonika’s bold personality with the elegance
of wine culture.Guests will enjoy a guided tour of Château Élan’s winery, exploring the winemaking
process from grape to glass. A private host will walk the group through the grounds and production
areas, ending in an exclusive tasting room reserved just for Bonika and her guests.
No Dress Code
Guest are permitted to schedule a spa appointment at https://spa.chateauelan.com/
Tranquil luxury meets girlfriend glow-up. This is a serene, soul-refreshing escape where plush
robes, soft music, and aromatherapy set the tone. It’s calm, curated, and deeply indulgent — designed
for guests to feel relaxed, restored, and radiant. The energy is peaceful, pampering, and polished —
because when Bonika glows, everyone shines.
• Guests will enjoy a full spa takeover experience with customized treatments like massages, facials, and
wine-infused foot soaks. The spa lounge becomes a sanctuary with infused waters, herbal teas, and soft
music. Between treatments, guests can relax in plush robes, enjoy light bites, and take part in mini
glow-up stations.
No Dress Code
Tee up in celebration of Bonika with a relaxed round of golf on Château Élan’s championship greens. Whether you’re a seasoned player or just swinging for fun, this is your chance to play, connect, and celebrate under the Georgia sun. Guests are invited to book their own tee times at Château Élan’s award-winning golf courses. From stunning fairways to a world-class driving range, you’ll enjoy a day of play your way — solo, in pairs, or grouped with fellow partygoers. Guests can also enjoy Flavors by The Fairway. Located on the 18th hole, Sarazen’s Bar & Grille features a variety of American fare and hand-crafted cocktails to enjoy after a day of hitting the links. Enjoy grilled sandwiches, salads, and more in a polished atmosphere overlooking the course.
Includes:
- Casual golf competition with bragging rights on the line
- Cigar bar stocked with premium selections
- Bourbon tasting station with curated pairings
Dress Code: Dapper on the Fairway – polos, slacks, and elevated golf looks encouraged.
Cooking with B – Flavors of Fifty
Sip Happens When You’re 50
Glow Like B: Spa Experience
Fairway to 50
BEYond 50:
The Main Event
8:00pm - 12:00am
Prepare for a night where elegance meets energy as we honor the unstoppable force that is Bonika. This isn't just a birthday party — it's a full-on experience, dripping in excellence, high fashion, and unapologetic power.
Channel your inner superstar and step into a world inspired by Queen Bey herself. From Renaissance boldness to Lemonade elegance, this black-tie affair is your invitation to SHOW UP and SHOW OUT!
Expect:
- A show-stopping tribute that’ll leave you speechless
- A special guest performance you don’t want to miss.
- Unforgettable beats from a legendary name in music
- A glam-filled scene with dramatic lighting and headlining moments
- Red carpet vibes, signature sips, and unforgettable VIP energy
Dress Code:
- Ladies: Channel your inner Queen Bey with head-turning style. Think Renaissance Tour glam—metallics, sequins, and bold accessories. Or go Lemonade fierce with dramatic silhouettes, rich colors, and powerful prints. Prefer something sultry? Drunk in Love elegance calls for flowing gowns, luxe fabrics, and a touch of shimmer. Confidence required.
- Gents: Step out like Jay-Z in his prime—think sleek, tailored suits, crisp shirts, and perfectly knotted bowties or open collars with swagger. Add polished shoes, a pocket square, or a gold accessory to elevate the look. A fresh cut and a cigar? Strongly encouraged.
This night is BEY-ond fabulous, BEY-ond fierce, and 100% Bonika.
Bloom with B Garden Brunch: Petals & Praise
10:00am - 12:00pm: Petals & Praise
A joyful 25th anniversary celebration for Bonika and Donta. As the weekend winds down, we gather in a garden filled with gratitude — to honor 25 years of love and a woman whose life blooms with grace, faith, and fearless joy. This isn’t just brunch; it’s a Sunday celebration of covenant, connection, and the unwavering love that has shaped Bonika and Donta’s journey. Bonika’s love for the Lord is the heartbeat of this moment, and together with Donta, they reflect a union grounded in faith and blooming through every season. With floral-filled tables, heartfelt toasts, and gospel tunes floating through the air, we’ll celebrate the beauty of marriage, milestone, and God’s enduring goodness.
Expect:
- Garden-chic vibes with soulful energy
- Spirit-led joy and music filled with grace
- Heartfelt reflections, intentional connection, and sweet surprises
Dress Code:
Ladies – floral printed dresses full of color and grace
Gentlemen – add a flower touch: lapel pin, pocket square, or printed shirt
Come ready to brunch, bloom, and bless — because this Sunday, we celebrate a woman who’s rooted in faith and flourishing in every way.
Accomodations
This convenient and comfortable stay places you just steps away from all of the weekend festivities — blending Southern hospitality with the charm of a vineyard escape. With modern amenities and a serene setting, it’s the perfect home base for celebrating Bonika in style.
Guests are invited to stay at the Hampton Inn & Suites located right on the beautiful grounds of Château Élan in Braselton, Georgia.
Address:
5159 Golf Club Drive
Braselton, Georgia 30517
For Bonika’s celebration, we’re not just attending a party — we’re stepping into an experience. Guests are encouraged to stay on the breathtaking grounds of Château Élan, where luxury meets Southern charm.
From the vineyard views to the peaceful ambiance, staying onsite allows you to fully immerse yourself in the weekend — no commute, no rush, just effortless access to every unforgettable moment. Whether you’re sipping wine, swinging clubs, or simply soaking it all in, Château Élan is the perfect backdrop for this iconic celebration.
option one
For Bonika’s celebration, we’re not just attending a party — we’re stepping into an experience. Guests are encouraged to stay on the breathtaking grounds of Château Élan, where luxury meets Southern charm.
option two
If you feel moved to honor Bonika in a way that reflects her heart for purpose and impact, consider a donation in her name to support scholarships. It’s a beautiful way to invest in future leaders and extend the light she so effortlessly shares with the world.
Celebrate Bonika’s Milestone with Meaning
